disjointed thoughts.....

Mum made great food on valentine's. She always does that ...makes yum food on festivals of all religions. She's been doing this ever since we were little. She always says, that we should all search for excuses to be happy. Her visions are as warm as her personality.
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yesterday i was thinking about joint families and nuclear families. we cant exactly deride advantages and disadvantages of either. I could strangely but easily compare them with cosmos. All cosmic materials got closer and closer, got denser and denser than whoa! there was a big bang. Thats joint family for u. In joint families space between people get lesser with time, and there's more pressure and temperature than a particular pattern could endure...so things just blast away. While the opposite phenomena of 'the big chill' when things go so far away...and get colder and lonelier and use up all the heat it had to keep going and dies a quite and cold death...thats nuclear family. whats better? quite and cold seems like a grave to me...may be a joint family is my pick...may be!